‘I was born in Hong Kong. The reason why I was born there was because my father, who was in the Royal Navy, was based there. My family - mother, father and sister Sharon - returned to England when I was 7 months old I believe.
‘I was brought up in Chatham, Kent, for the first 18 years of my life, living in the Lordswood and Luton areas and attending local primary schools.
‘I went to secondary school in Suffolk - a Royal Navy boarding school called The Royal Hospital School. I would say that the reason I went there was because I did not pass the ‘Kent test’ (a hangover from the 11-plus, retained by Kent County Council), and it was either go to ‘RHS’ or attend the local secondary modern school. I received a good education at the Royal Hospital School, but I was very unhappy there. I found the pseudo-military regime of the school oppressive and cruel and I believe the school reduced me from being a confident and happy, if somewhat precocious, child to someone who felt an inch high, a nothing.
‘A particular point to note about RHS is that, at the time I attended, the school waged a proactive campaign against boys thought to be gay. I am gay and I witnessed some terrible treatment of ‘queers’ at school, both by the school and the other boys. I believe my experience of this had a profoundly detrimental effect on my emotional and sexual development, which I still feel today.